Tuesday, December 14, 2010

A boring marriage, how many couples endure “rubber marriage”

A female reader recently heard about the embarrassing thing: “ten years of marriage, and marriage and boring sony vgp-bps9 battery, sony vaio vgn-fz battery, feeling increasingly bland. One of this state, people start thinking move, naturally there will be a male confidant, of course, we only ambiguous, not derailed. a private party a few days ago, I compiled a reason to say with her husband to work overtime, do not come back for dinner. her husband also smiled graciously and said he happened to have with clients, just the right Dell Latitude c600 Battery. the day I took Yan friends were at the blue, the results to the venue I am embarrassed to stay – I see ‘to accompany our customers’ husband, and his arm is also leaving for a young girl! ”

Such an experience, surrounded by spectators who felt Panax hit the twenty-first, it is clever! However, the current state of those who are in long-married couples, the hearts able to appreciate the different kind of taste.

Marriage, the start is: marriage is a woman of a man Chilian, a man touching a woman.

A long time, has become: a woman on a man tracking, a man to a woman lying.

Many married couples have more than a decade, felt like a piece of rubber, no dreams, dull, pain-free … … a lot of couples, the legal meaning of marriage is still shell, but the feelings and emotions, has long been numb. A survey data show that 22% of China’s current marriage is similar to the “rubber marriage” state.

The so-called marriage sony vgp-bps10 battery, sony vaio vgn-fz battery “the rubber state” showed nothing more than a few: the early performance of critical accusations are not satisfying, always feel awkward doing all the other mentally retarded, when a person began to find fault is the crisis began; the mid- performance of disputes, quarrels, and even physical discomfort, the total home or looking for various reasons did not come home late, fatigued by a comprehensive start; later, manifested as “seemingly gentle but actually indifferent”, the two sides can calm small talk, but attention has been hard to concentrate, and what are the routine, too lazy to bother to divorce, but also to update the love … …

Of course, in fact, a marriage, are inevitably appear dull period, also known as “rubber marriage” stage. This is because people increase with age and experience, will become more sophisticated, and a mentality of people who already sophisticated, in fact, hard to feel “passionate calls.” Said that the heart will grow old, it is because too many things at the top layer of laminate, the heart become less sensitive. And wants to be loved, but also more and more Southern feel the love … marriage … rubber, rubber mentality comes!

In fact, the people are rubber, but also to be less pessimistic, through a number of techniques, rubber can also be improved marriage.

For example, to learn dell vostro 1310 battery, dell vostro 1710 battery the gentle affection

Whenever a woman to learn to “embrace.” It is necessary to understand a wide range of “embrace” represents a different meaning, more useful for these implications.

Passionate embrace, on behalf of the unrestrained Dell Inspiron e1405 Battery. Sweet embrace on behalf of the subtle persistence. To hugs him from behind, on behalf of the generous and considerate.

As a career woman, you can say “I’m busy, I do not have much time to caring for his feelings,” then learn the one-minute hug. Woman, does not matter. All the able and high-handed, got into bed at the moment, must be declared terminated. Every night before going to sleep, gently hugs from behind to deal with, do not need any language, your arms, is the best display of affection. Do not think this is difficult to do, sometimes, communication, just from a hug.

Intimacy, how to say it to him

And some wise woman will always look like loving him. Husband and wife relationship, the passion is actually a process of competition for the favorite. Marriage, everyone wants to be the focus of each other’s eyes hp elitebook 2530p battery, hp elitebook 2540p battery, but with the age of marriage grew, the two sides of the attention will be fragmented, and this is because with the progress of real life, the marriage will be more rich content, the more interference distract you. But this “fragmented”, will result in the lack of a sense of love of their heart. Between husband and wife in order to maintain freshness, we must have a “sense of focus”, you have to recognize, much less to make them realize that, you put him (her) first, so he can be more focused. To make them voluntarily to take responsibility for maintaining the loyalty of marriage, you must have some sense of him, he is the most important the family is the most indispensable. This is not as complicated as women imagined that men want women to always be able to have his eyes, only he, as a woman, can do this, the marriage will extend the life of five years of passion.

Well, sometimes the noise as a small aircraft.

Face flat, do not do nothing, sometimes the best way to deal with plain, that is, finding fault, noisy children fought a small frame.

Between husband and wife toshiba pa3536u-1brs battery, toshiba pa3637u-1brs battery, the most dangerous enemy is not “noisy” because the noise is a form of communication, but also a catharsis. Between husband and wife is the most formidable opponents, “forbear,” which everyone pressed into the inner emotions, over time, this is the source of evil.

While men like women deal with the problem of reason, but they do not like too rational a man a woman. Because of too rational, is a lack of feminine. Intelligent woman, should learn proper “chipping away.”

When he began to ignore you, when he could not get a word spirit, looking for a small crop, fought with a noisy bar. Cause with the excuse to do a free Dell Inspiron 700m Battery. Excretion over, you will feel each other’s hearts are a lot easier, with an easy heart, the health of the marriage will naturally be improved.

Each will have a marriage inevitably tired of, a long marriage, and anyone 30 years can not truly love has not diminished. Into a long marriage, many couples feel the passion of the degree of each other in rapid decline, many things could not get emotional, crisis and imminent.

Many modern men and women, will extramarital affair as a kind of “emotional detox”, especially in long-married couples, passion subsided, in order to stabilize the marriage, they would choose the rails, used in this affair to try to stimulate their own emotional heat.

More and more long-married, will experience a short love. That many more women, because a short love, and subvert the entire marriage. In fact, short sweet love the reason, it is because in the long-term marriage dell latitude e6400 battery, dell latitude e6500 battery, the person’s mental passion curve is changing. Every couple is inevitable to go through dull period, which only normal, that everyone, every thing must go through the stages. This is like a cold, life is essential. Human psychology is a curve, a high point of a trough, a band every six years, when the six-come, your feelings into a low point, the woman that there is not despair but rejoice: because, as long as the smooth through the bottom, next to each other’s feelings, it will slowly rise again.

Marriage is the most important cause of human life – remember, is the “cause.”

To do this cause, the need is stamina, Dell Inspiron 9200 Battery, intelligence.

Compared with love, life is short. Have a marriage, then to find a way, to love him (her) right.

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